How often have you heard that bad kids come from bad parents? The fact is that there are several signs of bad parenting and the above mentioned parenting tip is one of them.
Parents enjoy the authority in ‘guiding’ their children in front of others and also in public. If their children try to confront them, they try to stop them which in a way block their kids’ ideas or view point. They also want them not to react in public. Because if they react, for parents it would be disobedience and disrespect. By repeated prodding in public, parents make children to feel belittled which in further make them incapable of doing anything on their own and standing on their view point. And when they grow up as an adult they lack self-esteem, confidence and doesn’t even stand up for themselves. A constantly criticized child can lose as much confidence & self-esteem. They even get afraid of public speaking which results them into an introvert. Their blossoming as an individual who has his/her view point and stand gets vanished. Well, Parents shouldn’t do so more importantly in public in front of their friends, siblings and dear ones.
Dear Parents your child is an echo of your actions. Our actions speak louder than words. The attitude, views, goals, and perspective of a child depends to a large extent on what he or she learns from his or her parents because life is all about the learning and living off what we have learned. Always remember “Praise in Public & Punish in Private”. Never ever yell on your kids in front of their dear ones specially their friends, siblings and cousins....read more
